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Have I met with Mr. Right one?
A few days ago, me and my partner argued tensely. I almost gave up and intended to end up everything. Like every lovers' fight, one must give in. And such in a most of couple quarrels, the (true) man urgently needs to succumb, without further asking, who-why-when-where-how.
The story just began. Through myriad words and arguments, even bloody hurting deeds, he told me:
A man could get married only if he is ready. Ain't about money, but hearts' (maturity). Getting married is not seeking pleasures. But first, my joy must be completed in the Lord, then I could enjoy a happy marriage. So, man needs to take responsibility. When I take you from your family, and marry you, you should be much happier when you marry me than when you were single. If I only could make you sad or distress, why then I marry you? I'm on duty to make my wife happy. But when you're sad or being so emotional, I must introspect myself as I'm the only one who can make you down. Most likely, because I'm your closest person, so every word of mine is very important to you. In marriage, there are so many weakening and strengthening things between us. Marriage is a never ending learning process. We are far from being perfect, but we have to (always) try to love each other; more and more, everyday. So now I want to ask you, are you happy for almost 2 years we are dating? Are you happy in our relationship to this marriage? Am I just making you sad? Do you feel happier with me than when you were single? I'm serious, hearing you sad broke my heart. I confessed that I have sinned against the Father and His daughter. I am sorry. I am guilty. I love you so much. I do not want to make you sad. Tell me, what should I do to make you happy.
Suddenly, my world stopped. I couldn't think clearly. Jesus, now, I'm sure that You sent him.
What I want to bercerita this very hour is: I have no doubt that true love waits. I was never on dating before till we're on dating since July 12, 2015. Many time I was so zealous making plea to God sending me His (chosen) man, but seemingly He never answered me, he was like speechless. BUT. At that very hour, I gasped.
Your knowledge too lofty for me. I thank you for this man, Christ!
To me, this is God's sign. How about you?
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Love you, honey :)
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